Brianna - posted on 11/15/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )
My son is almost 4 years old and My fiancé and I are getting married next year august. He is not my sons biological father, however he has been in his life since he was about 3months old. My son has no connections with his biological father and wouldn't recognize him if he saw him anyways. We had very intense court battles, visitations, and supervised visitations, which ultimately led up to a restraining order (for myself and my son) due to domestic violence. Just recently, my son began calling my fiancé "daddy". ALL ON HIS OWN. So my family and my fiancé's family have been encouraging it. I have plans to change his last name to my future husbands last name after we marry, but i'm very nervous to do so because I'm not sure if i want to explain to him what happened and what led us to where we are today. Any advice?