If God really loves us why does he hurt us so bad we end up loosing faith and hope in him / and having to wonder why did he even create the person knowing exactly she wasn't going to live after all the months i went through with hard and finally when things start to look up he just screws and messes it up

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Denikka - posted on 09/27/2012

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I'm not Christian, so I probably have a different view than those who follow the Bible.

I personally can't imagine the higher power (by whatever name you call it) as this person who dangles their fingers into people lives and pushes things one way or another.



My belief is this:

We are the children. When we were young, God was much more active in our lives. But we've grown up (as a race) now and so God is letting us go our own ways. The same way we do with our own children.

I believe that God is still there for us, as a shoulder to cry on, someone to ask advice of, as support, as any good parent should be. But He/She/They are not going to hold our hands and specifically guide us through every step of life.



Don't lose faith that He's there. But know that He has confidence that He has raised you the right way so that you can support yourself now. Ask for support and guidance. Even if it's hard at times.

And trust me, I know EXACTLY what you mean. JUST when things seem to be starting to go smoothly, something happens and jumbles it all up again. But it'll smooth out again in time :)

Tricia - posted on 09/27/2012

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Remember that you are human and what you are feeling is a human emotion.

I have lost one of my children and watched him suffer for 15 months before dying. I like you felt like cursing God. However, when I really got down on my knees and asked him to ease my suffering he did.

Since this time I have had two beautiful daughters without any complications.

He has a reason for everything and it is not for us to know just yet.

DeeDee - posted on 09/27/2012

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We will never know the exact reason for all the things he does until we meet him. But I do know he pots us through trials to make us stronger and to refine the person he wants us to be. I also believe that sometimes he puts us through difficult times so we may be better equipped to help someone else at another time in our lives who may not know how to cope or know Him yet. And that's where you come in. Don't lose your faith. Pray for his his hand on you and his wisdom in understanding what he needs you to do now. Remember he has a plan for you!

DeeDee - posted on 09/27/2012

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We will never know the exact reason for all the things he does until we meet him. But I do know he pots us through trials to make us stronger and to refine the person he wants us to be. I also believe that sometimes he puts us through difficult times so we may be better equipped to help someone else at another time in our lives who may not know how to cope or know Him yet. And that's where you come in. Don't lose your faith. Pray for his his hand on you and his wisdom in understanding what he needs you to do now. Remember he has a plan for you!

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