if my baby father doesnt want to be in my sons life until he is born should I let him ?

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Sherri - posted on 04/25/2012

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Yup he doesn't have to be in your life only his son's life and that can't happen till he is born.

Dove - posted on 04/25/2012

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He can't REALLY be in your son's life before the boy is even born. He could only 'really' be in yours. It's frequently hard for men to feel involved with their children (though certainly not for ALL men) before the child is born even when the father is married to and very much in love with the mother.



If the two of you aren't together then it makes perfect sense for him to not want to be involved until his son is here. Once the child is born, it isn't up to you if the father is involved or not. It's up to the father. If he WANTS to be involved, he can and will be even if it involves a court battle.

Michelle - posted on 04/25/2012

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That is not your choice to make it is his, you need to take care of yourself and your unborn child realistically the father can't do much before baby is here anyway.

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