Aranda - posted on 10/19/2016 ( 9 moms have responded )
I recently found out that it's a possibility that my husband may have another child. We have been together 22 yrs with the exception of 1 year. He dealt with a lady within that year. She reached out to my husband and told him her son may be his. The child is now 17 yrs old. My husband didn't come and tell me and but o found out. Although she kept it a secret from my husband I am still so hurt about the situation. I'm hurt that he didn't come to me. My mind has been all over the place. I love my husband and want to work this out but I really feel like I can't accept this. My husband said he didn't tell me because he was scared and didn't want to mess up what we had. We have 3 boys of our own. I don't want to have to bring someone else into our family. I don't want my husband to have any dealings with this other lady or her child. The kid is BAD! He is in a gang and smokes weed and drinks. I don't want that influence on my children. I have been so happy and content with my husband and our family that this has just turn my world upside down. Has anyone dealt with this and became happy again? How did you do it? Please help cause I'm drowning here in my emotions.