Im 14 & i wanna be a teen mom at 15 or 16

Kayla - posted on 06/28/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I MADE ANOTHER ONES JUST LIKES THIS BUT HERE IS MY NEW REPORT.

Im 14 years old. I wanna be a teen mom because i have 2 sides of the familY. My dads side is plastard. they think of my as a high class girl, want me to do well, act well they are alll farmers,married,rich.my moms side is way differnt, they live in not soo good houses (some of them do) & not as rich. they treat me like im not even there. if i do something wrong or "not mind" my dad hits me & leaves marks. he calls me "Little billy" Billy is my older brother who was & is in jail for half of his life first went when he was 17 & now he is 25. He did drugs,& had his first daughter at 18. My dad says i act just like him , My dad even goes around telling people that !! I act nothing liek him . Like i said in my other post i have a boyfriend named isaiah , Talked about having sex & anna have a kid just not now. He says he will be there for me & not care what tohers think . Then i think of everything imma need,be treated like. I wanna have a kid & show them the love,confort i never had. I plan to have a baby one way or another. but i need help .. im terrified for some reasons i cant explain , but i reaally wana kid .

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Kayla - posted on 06/28/2012

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I wanted to revise it. ! I didnt wanna post everything on that last post. Until everyone started commenting on it. Im 14 ! .... &Yes i wanna a baby but evryone is telling me the right things... which i have no porble with but now i wanna change my mind about being 14 mom.... & Just like be a little bit oldeer

Kristi - posted on 06/28/2012

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I'm growing a bit suspicious about you and your posts. Because just yesterday you were a 13 year old virgin who wanted to have a baby with her dedicated, loving boyfriend who wanted sex and promised you the moon. Real mothers are still commenting on that thread (over 90 so far) because nobody wants you to screw up your life or the life of an innocent child.

24 hours later we're a year down the road and you're borderline abused and neglected so to make up for it you're having a baby with "Isaiah," screw the world but not really because I want your attention? My bulls*** radar is up and running. If you are telling the truth and you honestly believe this is the right thing to do, especially after everything that was suggested to you in post one, then you are seriously ignorant and have mental health issues. If you are on here screwing with people, as I suspect you are, you are seriously pathetic and likely have mental health issues. Either way, I would suggest you seek counselling immediately. This is not funny or cute. There are children and adults who are being abused and neglected and teens who are and pregnant and unsure what to do, for you to make a mockery of these situations is disgraceful.

Sara - posted on 06/28/2012

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I really would advise waiting! Being a mom is hard work! It definitely isn't as easy as I thought it would be when I was your age. I'm very glad that I waited until I was older and married before I had my first child. If you really want to be a good and loving mom someday, consider investing in your education so you will have more to share with and teach your child! The more you learn, the better mom you will be. Plus, when you are older, you will be more patient and understanding. Also, enjoy your adolescence! Now is not the time that you need to worry about taking care of anyone else, just yourself! Please wait! It will be the best decision for you and your future child!

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