im 17, and expecting my first child

Kasey - posted on 07/28/2013 ( 4 moms have responded )

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im 17 years old, and im expecting my first child. im nearly 10 weeks pregnant. But the dad he keeps messing with my head, one minute he wants to be involved, next he dosent, and i dont think its fair on me. One minute hes kissing my bump telling me he loves me next hes shouting at me to get out his car? so it looks like im going to be a teenage single mum, could someone give me advice please on anything, i dont mind i just need reassurance really:(

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~♥Little Miss - posted on 07/28/2013

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Well, if you didn't have feelings for him, why were you having sex with him? Unprotected? Anyhow, pregnancy and hormones can make us want something like a shitty relationship because we don't want to be alone. He is playing you. Look to your family for strength and support cause he sounds like a fucking asshole and is just going to get worse.

Amy - posted on 07/28/2013

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Well get yourself unwrapped! You don't need to be dealing with that, I really don't understand how or why women put up with crap like that. If you have a daughter do you want her to grow up and be treated like that by someone. If not then you need to learn to stand on your own two feet before you have the baby. If he wants to be involved he can but you need to make it clear you and him are over!

Kasey - posted on 07/28/2013

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it just hurts i guess, i never even thought i had any feelings for him then all of a sudden its just come along and made me realize how i feel for him. but he thinks its appropriate to text girls asking to meet infront of me which hurt, alot. i never thought of it as mentally abusing me, but he knows he has me wrapped round his little finger.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 07/28/2013

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If I were you, I would take control, and leave him. He is abusing you mentally, and that is not good for you. This relationship does not sound like it will be good for anyone. i am sure you want to be with him, and raise the child together, but at what cost?

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