Im 7months pregnant and my childs father doesn't care for my well being

GeminiNee - posted on 07/25/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )

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I and my childs father broke up when I found out I was pregnant. Since the pregnacy , I will tell him about complications and high blood pressure. He tells me that is not his problem because its not concerning hisbaby. He doesn't call to check on I or the baby. He told me as well to leave him alone he is tired of me. My question is since he cant stand me should I let him be in the delivery room. I want to have joy when I deliver not someone who doesnt like me standing beside me

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Jodi - posted on 07/25/2014

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You don't have to let anyone in the delivery room you don't want to. It sounds like he wants to be there for the baby and that's it. He doesn't have to care about you, only the child.

I would make sure you file for custody, visitation arrangements and child support as soon as the baby is born, but don't expect him to care about you.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 07/25/2014

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Sounds like he won't be there anyway, so I wouldn't worry.

Get paternity established, and get him on the hook for support and visitation.

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