im a 16 year old girl in 6 month right now today. im a single mom my husband went and killed his self and my mom died of cancer. i thinking this willl be really hard to have i still in high school and taking college class.

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Raye - posted on 01/28/2015

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It's hard to be a mom at any age. It's harder to be a single mom. It's even harder to be a teen mom without family support. And even more hard to have twins. And you have cancer? I'm sorry to tell you, but it's going to be a struggle for you. I don't know where you are, but you should contact whatever social services are available in your area to help you out.

As far as the attitude of your late husband's family, it takes two to make a baby. Your boyfriend/husband chose to have sex without using protection, so you are only 50% responsible for that. He also chose to be a coward and end his life, and you are 100% NOT responsible for that. Unless he's got other kids out there somewhere, your baby is all that is left of their son, so they should get over themselves and help you if they want any chance of being in that child's life.

Alyssa - posted on 01/28/2015

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i'm 6 months pregnant i got married when i found out and then my husband killed his self

Alyssa - posted on 01/28/2015

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i don't have other family i'm living by myself and my husband family hates me because they think it all because of me because he killed his self.. im going to have to kids and i have cancer is it hard to be a single mom with too twin at 16

Raye - posted on 01/27/2015

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How did you have a husband at 16 years old?
I'm not sure what you mean by "in 6 month right now today". Are you six months pregnant? Is your child 6 months old? Please clarify.

Yes. It will be hard to be a single mom, especially a teen. Do you have any other family to help you?

What advice are you hoping to receive from the moms on this site?

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