Gillian - posted on 03/29/2012 ( 7 moms have responded )
Im wondering if other ladies out there have delt with this problem... my babies daddy is addicted to drugs and he is bi polar with anxiety problems (drug induced im sure) some days we see each other and things go great, other days he hates me, now as of right now we saw each other on saturday and things went really well, we discussed him getting help and he seemed to be very open about it and said he wants to get help but wants to try on his own first. we ended up texting all night then nothing. i have not heard a thing from him since. which is weird bc he usually texts me back even if were fighting. its hard to try to ignore him bc well he too is a parent. im wondering what other mothers have done in these situations. i know focusing on myself and son is what i should be doing, and i have been, i also have applied for child support and custody, its just frustrating bc he is right now, a mia deadbeat dad. idk what to do. he keeps coming and going as he pleases with no repercussions and our son is def beeing affected, anyone please share your expirences.