Im so emotional,depressed and alone.

Jade - posted on 02/11/2015 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I am currently expecting. I really do not know what to do. No one in my family knows, because they HATE my childs father. My childs father is VERY unsupportive.. I receive all verbal abuse from him. Wishing I die while giving birth. He calls my baby a bastard. Im so torn. Because I was so in love with him. All I want to do is hurt him. Not only I need to get my own place before I start to show because my family will not support me with it. I cant get child support be cause my childs father is on SSI. Im going crazy. Can I please get some advice. :(

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Sarah - posted on 02/11/2015

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You can apply for government assistance, housing, food stamps, medicaid, WIC. So go to the nearest Dept. of Human Services and apply. Pack your stuff and move out. Even though your family does not like the father of the baby, they presumably love you and will love the baby as well. Stash as much money as you can (do not steal) in a private account and leave the guy.

Cyndi - posted on 02/11/2015

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Im no expert, but I would say STAY AWAY FROM HIM. he doesn't deserve you or your baby in his life. My first baby was unplanned, and I was terrified. But you know what, she was the biggest blessing I ever had in my life. Your baby is worth it, and you need to be there for him/her. It WILL be ok. Stay away from the jerk and no contact! Get your ducks in a row and don't worry about what anyone else thinks. Its your baby! Its a love like you have never known and it WILL be ok.

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