Melanie - posted on 08/10/2015 ( 5 moms have responded )
6 months ago I took my husband back after an affair. At the time he also exposed many secrets he kept over the years like strip clubs, bars etc he had been going to. He vowed not to keep anymore secrets from me. I recently found out he stayed out at a bar until 5 am after we agreed he wouldn't go to another bar after the affair. He thinks it's no big deal and sees no problem with going to bars occasionally. I dont feel comfortable with it after the affair. I feel like he has very little respect for me and my feelings. I feel like I shou just leave him, but he's down playing the whole situation like I'm exaggerating. I just feel like he's very selfish and will never change. I'm a stay at home mom to 2 small children which makes it even harder to leave.