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My husband and I have decided to 'separate' somewhat but still live under the same roof. I am 4 months pregnant and we feel like trying to go through the divorce process right now will only cause problems and he wants to help me with the new baby while I'm breastfeeding and also help me out with my two year old. I fell out of love with him although he still loves me, so basically I'm the one that wants out eventually. We agreed if that happens, we will settle for joint custody. But his sister in law, and I'm pretty sure the rest of them, all hate me now like I'm the bad guy! I refuse to see them and want nothing to do with them now. I'm tired of everyone looking at me like I've done something wrong. Help me! I just want people to understand we arent on bad terms now. We want different things, not all marriages work out.