Maureen - posted on 09/07/2015 ( no moms have responded yet )
Uncle was babysitting and we came home to nake 5 year old and 2 year old with soiled diaper and butt rash. In-laws allowed sleep over of unlce in the same bed with our 5 year old without consent and we found this out from our child. This uncle has no girl friend, or friends and refused to get in car with us ( his brother and me) but will share a bed with my child. Brother doesn't even care for him but wants harmony. In laws have taken our kids to places without consent or made us aware of what they were doing ever. Short period of time visit overfeeding and junk lead to consitipation and found things out in our pediatricians office. Father incapable of speaking up to parents and expressing guidlines we agreed to. Our main rule is to reconncent as a family and rebuid trust. Father in -law extremely nasty and condensending saying rediuclous and hurtful thing about me and now refusing me in their lives. It's obvious to me but husband has threaten to take them over without me or addressing the concerns. There are a few more other things that we have batteled for several years. NOw I have a lump on my breast and I'm prego but feel the baby might not make it due to "everything." How to get my husband to speak up and stand up for kids and me and make us a priority? Feeliing unsupportive, overwhelemed, and alone. Asking for gudieance, input and prayers please!