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Tania - posted on 06/16/2011 ( 8 moms have responded )

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i love my husbands family but ever since Ty was born.. (3 months ago) his mother (who lives 6 hours away) comes every 3 weeks and spends a week here.... trying to get my man to understand that as much as i love her, and understand that she wants to see her grandson....i don't want her here as much.... I'm starting to resent her!!! and on top of that She's jelous that my mom lives 5 mins away.But if i don't want to see my mom i don't... but the in-law i haven't got a choice??? Am i a terrible person??

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Tania - posted on 06/17/2011

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yeah i know i have my work cut out for me lollll so not looking forward to the 2nd week of july tell you that much :-(

√v^√v^√♥ - posted on 06/16/2011

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lol well you need to get on board with your husband, that is the start of the matter. He has to understand. If he doesn't well then it's up to you to make him and tell him your done with being left alone with her. Period. Say it's too hard on you, he works a lot and doesn't understand and yeah... good luck lol

Tania - posted on 06/16/2011

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sure a week-end but to her it just isn't worth it!! to me it is MORE than enough!!

Tania - posted on 06/16/2011

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lol Jessica i just feel bad telling her to chill with the long visits... especially when my hubby works 12 hrs a day so i'm stuck with her all damn day....she just annoys me talking baby talk to TY.... can never find the gust to talk to her about it.... and my man don't understand my problem with it!!!

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Hmm.. ask for weekends only? Say it throws off your schedule too much. There's no reason she cannot respect that. I know gas is expensive and times are tough, but if it stresses you out that much you have to stand up for you.

Raynae - posted on 06/16/2011

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A whole week at a time? I would definitely be going crazy. I love my best friend but I wouldn't want her to stay at my house for a whole week, every three weeks. You are not terrible at all, I would feel the same way, I love my own space to do what I want with it. Maybe see if she wants to come for one weekend a month. And in between send her photos via email or phone.

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