Lorraine - posted on 03/17/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )
I have read all these things all of you are posting about your IN LAWS...well my prob...funny enough it is not my MIL it is my SIL. it use to be both...but then MIL realised that her son and myself is the ones is the ones paying all the bills and buying the food for the hous...so she changed but now its my SIL. we use to be very close until she lost her son in September 2010. ever since then she got moody, bitchy and just nasty. started to only care about herself and nobody els...anyhow it got worse when we found out i was expecting and even worse when the due date was in Sep. anyhow to cut the story short...before my daughter was born i was tottally scared of this entire process that was coming my way...in the first few months i was not allowed to bath my daughter...if i tried she cried by me...feeding time in hospital was awesome at home i was immidiatly told we are putting her on formula...fresh food i was told is too soon...at 5 months but they gave her clover full creme milk as a baby...? anyhow...my SIL was okay i managed to get over the baby blues and the fear of her taking over with my daughter but now its got to the point where i am losing my sanity. she uses everything against me when it comes to my daughter if i say no she comes and says come i will help or do it with you, if i say you have to start eating this she would say you can't force a child to eat...if io scoled at her they will call her to make me look ever worse...we got to th point where without asking me or anybody she just went and bathed with my daughter...;and i am suppose to be fine with it...ever since the bath scene i can not look at her without wanting to do something to her...my daughter started to lie to me so that she can just go the my SIL's room...i hate my life and i do not know what to do so stay sain...i am trully and honestly losing every bit of me...she is my daughter and i am not givin the time to teach her or to acttualy play with her without anyone having something to say about it. she has got more patients with my daughter then with her own teenager son. whom by the why she does everything for even dress him before she leaves for work...i know i might be the problem even though this i cant take...she would rather want to be with my daughter then with her own son and that makes me even dislike her even more.