Jill - posted on 12/04/2013 ( 6 moms have responded )
I am in a relationship with a man who has a 1 year old. He and the bio mom only dated for a total of 2 months. They split up during pregnancy. I really don't even know what to say. She is 20 and I am 25. She is constantly trying to start trouble and claims that my fiance is telling her that we will not be together much longer. She wants him to come to her house for visitation 5 nights a week from 6 to 9 or 10. I tried to be the adult and be friendly with her, even tried to see it from her point of view because I myself am a single mom of a child I had when I was her age. It all went smoothly until she saw i wasn't going anywhere. I am not allowed to be around his daughter in any way. Not even if she is present. She asked to meet me and then disappeared for a month and we ended up taking her to court so that my fiance could have visitation again. She wants me gone and is doing everything in her power to make it happen. How can I diffuse this situation. I don't hate her, I understand what she is feeling because I went through it.