Interracial relationship and grandparents not accepting me and child

Ukachi - posted on 04/20/2016 ( 1 mom has responded )




First,am expecting my baby in june, the father of my baby isn't with me since i was 8 weeks,.because when his family found out they asked me to go take it out..i am african and they are Albanian/Canadian citizens. They never even got to know me personally but they hate me so because am older than him and also African Lady. They took him out of Canada, i have been on my own since then..I feel lonely and sad most times..i cry most night asking myself what i did to deserve the way they are treating me..And i don't have any family here with me..How could people be so heartless to people this way...You what surprise me most, is that they knew when we started dating but as i got pregnant they changed and asked their son to cut every means of communication with me. And he is stupidly complying with them..


Raye - posted on 04/20/2016




Well, if your boyfriend was an adult, then he would be the one that has a say in who he builds his life with. If he allowed his family to intervene, then that means he's making the choice not to be with you.

Once your child is born, you should go to court to make sure you have legal custody (so they can't come back and take the child from you), and then also file for child support. He helped create that child, and is financially responsible to help raise it too.

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