Nina - posted on 01/25/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )
My husband and I have been married for four years and have a great relationship and a new baby born in December 2012. My husband and I have a great sex life. We have never been sexually open to other people or anything like that. We both love our best friend very much, he is the godfather of our child. Our friend is a great guy, very smart and skilled in many ways, not to mention extremely extremely attractive. We are all in our early twenties, and have traveled a lot. My husband and I are considered inch asking our friend to join us in our marriage. My husband has never had any sexual attraction toward other men but wouldn't mind sharing me with our friend because we love him so much. I really only want my husband sexually but I do like the idea of being the center of attention and being showered with love by two amazing people. My husband also said he might like seeing me with another man. I think having three people to take care of each other sounds ideal, but maybe I'm being idealistic... Has anybody ever been in this kind of relationship? Can you share your experiences and tell me if you think it's a good idea to open our marriage to our wonderful friend? Who has experience with poly lifestyle ?