Holly - posted on 08/13/2012 ( 9 moms have responded )
I need help! My childs bio-dad has decided that he would like to take a semi-part in her life. Child support or custody isn't an option, he would just like to see her(supervised) from time to time. I am perfectly okay with that and for now have decided to call him a friend and blah blah blah. My husband and I don't know what is best for her. My husband has been with us since day 1 and she doesn't know anyone else as dad. I don't want to change that but I also don't want to deprive her/him from something. I want to know if it's better to keep it as her bio-dad is her "friend" or break the news to her that she has two dads. I am worried about confusing her and breaking my husbands heart. I don't want him to feel like anyone is taking his place. Any similar experiences and outcomes will be greatly appreciated!