Jeanette - posted on 01/28/2013 ( 6 moms have responded )
My child and I were both on a restraining order againest father (I won't go into details, too personal) but I chose to take her off so that she could establish a real relationship with her Father (looking back I would have done a few things different but I always had what was best for my child in mind)
Father and I have a very hostile co-parenting relationship, along with him comes his overbearing parents who meddle in issues that concern our child.
I've suggest co-parenting classes but he refuses. It always reverts back to something in a negative reference to me. I think he holds a grudge againest me for the domestic violence because he brings it to my attention here and there.
I don't waste my energy reminding him anymore that he made horrible decisions and there are consequences to that.
It isn't my burden or problem that when a cop witnesses DV they press charges againest the other party (what happened in my situation)
Anyway, I know the situation won't change anytime soon as it's been two years.
So my question is anybody in a similar situation and what is the best way to cope and handle the anxiety?