Is anyone out there dealing with a husbands or boyfriends parents who love their ex daughter in law

Jessica - posted on 12/13/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )

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Im currently dealing with my boyfriends family still in love with their ex daughter in law. I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years and they have never tried to get to know me or spend time with me. Instead they choose to spend their time with their ex daughter in law who cheated on their son with his best friend. Any advice???

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Jessica - posted on 12/13/2012

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oh also she is not such a good mother to their daughter. Which makes things very bad

Jessica - posted on 12/13/2012

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Hi Anne completely understand your comment. I too am an ex daughter in law as well me and my ex husband have a 15 year old daughter. The situation Im in is very complex, with my bf ,his family, the child ,and the ex. SHe did commit the cheating and made horrible lies to cover it up to his parents. Him and his mom do not have a good realtionship, and she just deals with his ex instead of him or both me and him. His daughters bday just passed and his mom did a bday for her up north florida and she did not invite us at all. We did our own thing for her and then the ex did something down here and invited his family. They did go and never contacted us they were even down here. I really dont know how to deal with this at all. I dont act this way with my ex in laws at all. or vice versa

Anne Inez - posted on 12/13/2012

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I am an ex daughter in law :) my ex husbands parents still treat me good, we also have a child together which makes it a lot easier!! My ex remarried about seven months after we divorced ( I divorced him because he treated me bad and we didn't get along) I didn't like his wife at first but only because my ex tried to make her mommy! after i got to know her we got along great but his family never treated her good! I don't know if it was because they didn't want me to be replaced or what but even his brother and sister was always mean to her...They just got divorced last yr and they don't even talk to her anymore they were married for 8 yrs! Her and i still talk and she has always been good to my son, way better then his own father :)
My advice is to maybe plan a family dinner or family outing so they can get to know you because they won't care what happened in their relationship because that was between your boyfriend and his ex ( i'm guessing lol) It's hard to understand how people think!
i even backed off and didn't talk to my ex inlaws for two yrs just so they could get to know her but didn't work :(

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