Angie - posted on 03/27/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )
I am a stay at home mom of a 13, 11 and 9 year old. I am needed here by my kids, my husband knows he wants the kids raised by us, not sitters or daycare, but I am struggling with an identity of my own. This is what I have always wanted, but the kids are older now, and I am thinking I should go back to school or something. I know these are probably the hardest years for the kids and they need me more than ever. I guess in the back on my mind I am wondering if this is it? Is this all I am meant to be? I question myself, yet I am upset by women who choose to have kids and allow others to raise them because they are to busy making a name for themselves! Where does the answer lie?