is he cheating or really just kidding?

Morgan - posted on 03/11/2013 ( 10 moms have responded )

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the other day i told my boyfriend he needs to pay more attention to his girlfriend(of corse refuring to myself) and he replys with which one..then says im just kidding..idk how to take that it was very unnecassary and upset me how should i take that am i jus overreacting?

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Just drop the subject because then it will lead to an argument. If you are insecure just ask, if your not then just leave it alone. You are too young to be worried about things like that. Enjoy life, believe me... I was the type of person that would dread on stuff like that and now that I look back I should have just let things go. Follow your heart... Remember a woman's intuition is always right....

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Morgan - posted on 03/15/2013

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i dont have trust issues at all. and like i said the ONLY reason i questioned it was because of the older women comment he made days before...im jus so much younger then him and i always wondered if he wanted somone his age so when he said that it botherd me..but i let it go then he said the thing about another girlfriend it really hurt. im litterally half his age he was 18when i was born his birthdays in june mines in january..every body tells me im very mature for my age he thought i was 25ish when we first met(i was only 18) lol and i thought he was 25 too we both dont act or look our age
so when we told each other how old we were it was a "whoa moment" but that was after we were very interested in each other...but everything good now i really think we were ment to be:)

Jodi - posted on 03/12/2013

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Ok, so I was wrong, you don't have trust issues...... It just seemed odd to me that you can't tell whether he is joking or not, which indicates to me that you are questioning whether he might be, which says you don't really seem to trust him 100%. Sorry if you thought this was a negative observation.

Morgan - posted on 03/12/2013

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thanks yall!:) i do have an amazing boyfriend and i rarley take things to heart but for some reason i did with that we talked and everythings great again as usual also because of the POSSITIVE comments i got on this..thanks yvette,little miss cant be wrong, michelle and amber!

Determined - posted on 03/11/2013

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My husband and I joke about it all the time. If he isn't doign anything that makes you think he's being unfaithful then he was most likely just joking. Tell him it bothers you but if he isn't acting suspicious I wouldn't worry. My husband and I were talking the other night about me joining the Navy once I am done with school and entering as an officer. He made the joke that I'd be his sugarmomma and I responded with "What makes you think I'd still want you and not a handsome officer." We both knew we were joking. It's most likely the same situation hun.

Michelle - posted on 03/11/2013

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My husband and myself always have the running joke that he has a gorgeous wife and that when she's on her way I'd better leave.

He may have thought you were having a joke as well.

Morgan - posted on 03/11/2013

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actually there isnt trust issues at all. hes never ever said anything like this before...i do trust him i jus dont understand whyd he say this i told him it upset me and he jus looked at me hes been acting diffrent latley thats another reason im kinda confused but then again he never hides his phone or anything and ive never even thought about him cheatin if i wanted to i could go threw his phone but i choose not too. i dont play detective. he also made a comment the other day about older women..i jus blew it off im 19 and hes 37 so when he said that about another girlfriend made me think about what he said about another women...thats the only reason i wanted opinion

Jodi - posted on 03/11/2013

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Clearly there are trust issues if you have to ask this question. I think you need to work on that.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/11/2013

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I guess it all depends on if you can trust him. My husband and I joke about crap like that all the time, and never even consider it to be the truth.

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Maybe he is kidding and he is trying to get a reaction out of you for making such comment. Let him know that the comment he made upset you. Just ask and if he tells you know then drop it. Don't go snooping around, if you are playing detective then you shouldn't be in the relationship.

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