Is he just tired for me?

Gloria - posted on 05/28/2016 ( 1 mom has responded )

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my husband and I have two beautiful children. He has worked graveyard all his life. I work 3 1/2 hours m-f. Lately, he sleep till a couple of hours before going to work. It's me with the children most of the time. The times he is awake, he spends them with the kids. Which, I have no issue with, but there's hardly time for us. He will approach me an ask how my day was but it is like the generic question you ask anyone. He's just expecting a "it was good" answer. Every time he comes home, in the morning, he's either talking to his mom or sister, this is on the daily bases. And the conversation sounds like theyve been talking for many minutes. I wish I could get a conversation like that in at least twice a week. During the weekend, he finds energy to run errands for family members and when he gets home he's exhausted ready to go to bed. And there goes my Saturday night. I've tried talking to him about it, but it's hard for me to do so without tears rolling down my face. That kind of puts him off. I really doubt he's cheating. But I just don't know what to do. He acknowledges he's always tired but it goes nowhere.

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Angeline - posted on 05/28/2016

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It's the same here for me too. My husband is always tired and sleepy after work. I'm a stay at home mom living abroad in a country that doesn't speak English. I have no friends at all. I'm at home 24/7 with my baby who's 5.5 months old now.

My heart aches every night when my husband is asleep after putting the baby to sleep while in watching tv by myself. I eat by myself - breakfast lunch and dinner. I don't know what to do as well :(

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