Cat D - posted on 03/31/2016 ( 5 moms have responded )
I am beside myself today. Today my 14 yr old son decided to tell me that he is transgender and identifies as a female. Now he wants me to call him Katelyn Nicole and I just don't know what to do! I feel bewildered! My son who has never shown even the slightest feminine tendency is now telling me he has felt this way since he was 9/10. I just don't get it. I am having a hard time buying into it all. I hate to be the parent that says it is because of who he is hanging with but we moved to a new community, new school and now he is hanging with a group of LGBT kids and now he tells me this. I told him I love him no matter what and we would talk about it when he comes home but honestly I don't know how to handle this. I truly feel he is just confused. Like maybe he is attracted to men and equates that with a need to be a girl or something....IDK has anyone else dealt with this before?