Michela - posted on 07/26/2011 ( 2 moms have responded )
my daughter's father & I have an off on relationship. He's a commitment phobic & I'll admit i'm slightly crazy. We've been together 8yrs on and off and our daughter is 5. I suffer with really bad PMS & have awful mood swings I know this & for 10yrs i've tried my hardest to get the Doctors to try to help me. All I get is antidepressants that I don't feel work so now i'm trying natural remedies. I am fully aware my mood swings are horrible. My partner says i'm crazy & won't live with me & our daughter so he comes around when he feels like it. I keep having sex with him on odd occasions because i'm craving his love & want him to commit to me & our daughter. I know it's not healthy but thats life for me. HIS mother see's our daughter when he takes her for regular visits. A lot of the time my daughter comes home with her hair trimmed. I know it's been done but his mother deny's it. She's tried to get custody of my daughter saying i'm an unfit mother because i suffer with awful mood swings & have been on medication. I think she cuts her hair then tries to make our she hasn't so i look crazy. Her dad is so spineless he won't stand up to his mother. When my daughter was 3 she cut her hair & said "mummy's going to really like this" my daughter told me & then her grandma denied it & more or less said my daughter was lying... how does a 3yr old lie like that????? I have now said I will not accept my daughters grandma seeing her without me present & she is kicking off saying i'm a nutter.... what would you all do any advice appreciated.... Am i neurotic???