Shoni - posted on 01/30/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )
I have a almost six year old son. His dad hasn't seen him in four years and before that only visited him a handful of times when he was a toddler. He now wants to see our son for his birthday. But when I asked him if he planned on being in our sons life he refuses to answer, in the past I asked him to be consistent with our son, but he never has been. I gave him so many chances in the past and back then would have said yes to him seeing our son. But now it has been four years and I wonder if seeing his dad now will only hurt and confuse him, rather than bring him happiness. He most likely won't see or hear from him again for who knows how many years if any.