IS IT BETTER TO BE SINGLE AND DO WHAT YOU WANT NO STRINGS ATTACHED OR BE COMMITTED?

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THIS IS JUST ME. I ENJOY BEING SINGLE AND MAY BE ONE DAY COMMITTED. I LIKE GOING OUT WITH WHOMEVER I WANT WHEN I WANT DO WHAT I WANT AND COME HOME TO ME.

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Im happy that you are where you want to be but my reason for dating and being single is because its fun. i dont bring men to my home whether i have kids or not. i dont look at it as bouncing around seeing if i still got it. i know i do. take me as i am lol! best wishes.

Amy - posted on 07/23/2013

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I think everyone needs to do what's right for them. I think the important thing is that your kids come first and don't see the guys that are coming and going. I'm recently divorced and although I haven't started dating yet I'm making it a point that my kids will not be meeting anyone unless it gets serious.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 07/23/2013

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I'm on Jodi's page here.

I'm glad that people can enjoy the swinging single lifestyle, and I always hope that they're being responsible about it...because otherwise we see them here with all of the baby daddy drama...and wonder why their life is a mess because they couldn't/wouldn't commit to a relationship.

But, for myself and my situation, it is MUCH better to be committed in a loving relationship and family than to be bouncing around wondering if I'm still attractive, still loved by someone...At least with my loving husband and my kids, I KNOW I'm attractive, loved, and very much wanted and appreciated :-)

Jodi - posted on 07/23/2013

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And I love coming home to my beautiful family and still having a fantastic balance of independence. Each to their own.

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