Is it me or is it my husband

Kristin - posted on 03/22/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )

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Hello I am a mother of 3 with another one on the way me and my husband had 3 children then got married now we are expecting our 4th child. I was pregnant with my twins first who were born very early so there heath is always up down all the time our 3rd child pregnacy was good until I lost my dad when I was 7 months and I been an emotinal roller coaster whe got married when our youngest was 1 my twins are 3 and 3rd is 2 and were having our 4th. Just a few weeks ago my brother was killed. I'm so tired and emonially drained but yet my husband calls me lazy all the time. He does pay most of the bills I pay car insurance I work in daycare and by the time I get paid I get 200 every 2 weeks afyer daycare and insurance ect but I'm working and I love it I work 4 10 HR days when I get home around 6ish I cook supper then we eat I then take my break my husband starts in saying I'm lazy he works 5 days 5am 1:30pm leaves kids at daycare he gets home about 3 and gets a break I never do. With this pregnacy I'm so tired and feel like I never sleep I have no energy do anything . Soon as my husband starts in I cry I can't help it. We have so much going on but at the same time I don't understand why he has to be so hateful he helps get kids to bed after he bitches that I don't get up when I literally just sat down. He always complains he don't get it enough but everytime we do I hurt so bad I cry but I'm the bad guy. I do have some emotional problems with affection he always known this but every time we argue he uses that as why he acts the way he does. Its like ever since we got married its been this way . I just need help or advice on how to deal with this situation

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