Kedi - posted on 07/09/2013 ( 4 moms have responded )
My son turned 5 recently and his preschool teacher said that he plays dress ups in school and that in her 25 years of experience as a school teacher she never saw any boy playing dress up and that he does not like to play rough housing with other boys and always plays with the girls.During summer holidays I watched closely and saw his behaviour a little strange....point never noticed any of these before the teacher complained even if i did i thought he was just playing but when i started watching and put everything he did in the google ,it comes to a conclusion of gender non conformity (as in gay ) He does have all the signs effeminate mannerism walks like a girl and sometimes suddenly stand like a girl facinated with long hair like rapunzel,
pretend play include princesses, doll plays, mommy baby plays fantasy play taking female roles, attraction to female characters in stories. Girls as playmates ,fear of injury does not like rough-and-tumble play non-participation in group sports feels fragile, weak, vulnerable to injury play only couple of minutes in park and says iam tired and recently he saw a teenage boy in the store and said i love that boy right in his face.
I do not understand if this is a passing phase,how long does a passing phase lasts? if its not how do I support him as he will be going Kindergarden soon I love him and very protective but its also very scary to think what he will go through in school years do anyone experienced or ever were in similar situations...plz need help