Is it OK for father and grandmother to not encourage visits with me/their mother?

Devon - posted on 01/03/2014 ( 4 moms have responded )

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My soon to be ex and his family are setting up activities and "fun" things for the kids when they should be spending time with me. It has gotten to the point where the children have been refusing to visit. What can I do?

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Devon - posted on 01/04/2014

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Have been documenting my attempts. Part of the problem is the kids often refuse to see me and he doesn't support me in the need for visits. He believes if they refuse visits, he will not make them. His mother is as bad or worse to keep the kids and I separated. Is interesting how the kids often use the same language even false accusations they do. Am very concerned they are deliberately alienating us. I do have an attorney and he has hired one of the best in our area. Paid of course by his mother. I'm at a loss as to how to combat their behavior. I'll try the emails/texts as you suggested. Thank you for your response and support Jodi.

Jodi - posted on 01/03/2014

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Keep records of every time you attempt to make contact with the kids and he refuses and take that information to court. Can you make these contacts by either text or email? Because then you will have evidence of his responses? Do you have a lawyer?

Devon - posted on 01/03/2014

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haven't gone to court yet, have to go middle of month so for now he keeps kids at his place and I have keep getting turned down to see kids.

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