Is it ok that i changed my number but i didnt give it to the FOB

April - posted on 11/11/2013 ( 5 moms have responded )

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Iam 19 on my second kid , And the father of my second child is not always there for me and iam sick of it I feel I need to move on and get over him .. He dosent support me the way he should . Iam pregnant I just want love and it seems hes not willing to give me any so why even bother anymore .. What do you ladys think?

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Gena - posted on 11/12/2013

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Have to agree with Jodi again :-) you could give him your number but tell him you need time foryouself to think about stuff or whatever.Dont you want him to come with to check ups?

Jodi - posted on 11/12/2013

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I'm confused.

But anyway, why don't you just tell him that? Tell him you need some space and you don't want him to call. Be honest with him. Changing your number to get away from him doesn't solve the problem.

April - posted on 11/12/2013

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no I understand but that's not my intentions , I want him to be there for the baby .. iam not trying to keep him away I just want space from him until the baby comes

Jodi - posted on 11/11/2013

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What do I think? I think he has a right to have access to his kid, whether you like it or not. You don't have the right to cut him out of his child's life. I'm not sure what you mean by "doesn't support you in the way he should", but he actually doesn't have an obligation to support you at all, only his child. You can't just decide to cut a man out of HIS child's life because he doesn't want to love you or you are no longer in a relationship with each other.

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