is it ok that i raise 8 kids and some are not even mine?

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i raise my 4 children with my boyfriend i who is the father of the youngest 2 i also raise my bf other daughter and i also raise my ex's 3 kids?

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my bf has 3 kids in new zealand and they wanna also come stay with us should i let them there's ceza 13 jahstyce 12 and tara 12 we have enough room but the money im happy to take them but im scared ill get to stressed 11 kids so can i have ur opinions

Brittany - posted on 07/27/2012

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I think it's very kind of you to take on those children - they will love you to peices for it :) If you can handle the challenge it's a very positive thing you are doing for these children - you will be rewarded with tons of grandbabys and love in the future - always have people around for a big christmas - I think it's a great thing your doing.

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i raise my ex's kids because there bio mother ran away cause she was too young and there bio dad pasted away and i have raised them since they were little

Dove - posted on 07/26/2012

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I'm curious why you are raising your ex's 3 kids instead of him and/or their bio mother, but there is nothing wrong with taking care of 8 kids as long as you have the resources and patience to handle it. Are the other bio parents involved at all?

Brittany - posted on 07/26/2012

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Its up to you if you think that is right.. I know step moms, who have went on to raise their step children by themselves..however, there were outstanding circumstances... why are you raising your ex's children? If he is a suitable parent... maybe you should consider letting them go back to him.. I can imagine 8 children must be very hard to take care of..

Good luck to you :)

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