Belon - posted on 05/16/2013 ( 92 moms have responded )
I have a friend who has a daughter & the same age as my daughter (7 yr old). My daughter is smart A+ & A- in grades in grade 2, her daughter has so much problems in school, very annoying kid, always get what she wants from her Mom, and she always give in, she tells her mom shut up, be quiet and etc. My child never! I live in 4,000 square feet home, always clean and shiny, my daughter is never allowed to walk with the shoes on inside my home. The kids played in the backyard, came in to the house with their shoes on, and she yell at my daughter and call my daughter stupid (in my language) even though you don't call my daughter that. I told my daughter, she says how come she is allowed, I told my child honey if you are not allowed to do that at home you are not allowed to do it at anybody's home at all. THE next day they played again, same thing happen but my child didn't do it she took the shoes off, and she yell again, I told her my daughter is not wearing it it's your daughter! you should tell her. She says I would never yell at the kids bcoz they feel embarased and I SAID OH really (but in my mind it's ok to yell at my child but not to her child)
2). Went to a party both kids got a balloon and left it beside me to watch it but I didn't pay attention, both kids are wining where's the balloon so I said get a balloon there, there's so much balloons there just take it anywhere it's all yours all the kids are gone. My daughter found one and she found one, but her child like the balloon that my daughter found and her child started crying and telling her Mom that is her balloon. Her Mom came to my child and telling my child that's my baby's balloon, my daughter says, how can it be yours? we lost our balloons, I got this from there, my child's reply is correct right? but gues what the mom says to my child yes kiwi that's my child's balloon, she took the balloon from my child, so my daughter was so upset but i just hug her and proud of her to just let go.
3. Both kids are dancing, my daughter can dance sexy and she has the good moves, her child dance like a robot lol. Everyone just say omg she can dance, she would comment to my daughter you shouldn't dance like that, that's for adults, and people say it's like a jazz dance nothing wrong wit that but for her is wrong.
4. Went to buy a gift for a 1 yr old boy party, we both went to the clothes department, my child found a dress suit with a black pants, tie, vest and shirt very cute and my daughter says oh mommy i want to show it to Tita what we got, she was so excited to show it to her so we went and look for them, i was behind her to see what's her reaction, my daughter goes oh Tita look at this isn't this cute? her reaction was hmm give the ugly look face and snap her hands to tell my daughter is not cool, again my daughter is disappointed. THEN her daughter came right after and say Mommy look and she says oh my god baby that is nice, very good baby thank you and kiss her. My poor baby just walk away and i have to cheer up again. I felt like I want to tell her off but I am up to the roof of my patience with her and I don't know what to do, but at same time my daughter doesn't have any friends in the area, she does but WE THE parents don't hang out together. With her I like because we can hangout and watched them together. I can write a book about this so many issues that bothers me, but it won't be enough pages hehehhe..thanks for your info.
5. We went for an ice cream, I paid for all, my child pick the cotton candy and her child pick another type and as we go along, her child is complaining again that she doesn't like her ice cream, her mom keeps telling her no you pick that then finish it, my child said to her, you should of think and make sure that's what you want before ordering them, the mother said to my child oh be quiet why are you so OPINIONATED? and she is really upset at my daughter, my daughter talks like an adult and she probably hates it i don't know.
Today my daughter says to me she can write the whole book of what bad feelings I feel for her and next time she wants to tell her off.