Demelia - posted on 01/16/2014 ( 6 moms have responded )
So as of New Years Eve I was informed by the father of my chilren that we will no longer be together and as of February first he will be moving out. No biggie, I could deal with that and keep it civil. Only problem is recently I have found out that he is actually moving in with the girl he has been "talking" to. Not only am I now going the legal route for child supprt (he wants to pay $50 a month per kid), but I was wondering if it would be wrong to ask the courts to deny overnight stays with him. I'm just not sure how the kiddos would take to the shock of him leaving (they don't know yet) and the fact that daddy is already with an living with anoyher woman. It just seems too much at once for a 3 and 5 year old to process. Can anyone help me here?