Is it okay for a married man to go visit his kid from a previous relationship without his wife at the mother's house?

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Jennifer - posted on 10/07/2012

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No I do not believe that is okay at all unless you are there as well. If you have an issue with something your husband should be more then accommodating to your needs or insecurities. Maybe to pick his child up, take him to the park, your home, lunch, something of that sort would be just fine. But at his ex wifes house?... That is uncalled for and disrespectful to you.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 10/05/2012

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Why is it NOT ok with you? Are you jealous of her? Do you have trust issues with him?

S. - posted on 10/05/2012

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What are the reasons for him having to see the child at the mothers house ? Spending time with his kids doesn't have to mean spending time With the mother! As something happened for trust to be a issue?

And I feel it is ok because i feel a child need's to spend time with it's parents regardless and if that doesn't include the new wife for what ever reason then so be it, i also feel that it would be nice if you could be there and be part of this Childs life but I don't know the details and if that's not possible then it is more important that the child see it's father over anything else, hopefully in time you will be part of that too.

LESIA - posted on 10/05/2012

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WHY IS IT OKAY? FIRST, LET ME GIVE YOU A LIL MORE INFO... HE'S UNABLE TO DRIVE DUE TO HEALTH ISSUES... SO THAT MEANS I WOULD HAVE TO TAKE HIM & PICK HIM BACK UP FROM HER HOUSE... SPENDING TIME WITH HIS CHILD DOESN'T MEAN HE HAD TO DO IT @ THE KID MOTHERS HOUSE...

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