Myriam - posted on 04/01/2013 ( 6 moms have responded )
Is it okay to be "friends" with your sons father? Is this possible? Are any of you friends with your child's father? We just recently ended it its been a tumultous last 3 years he cheated on me terribly were like old best friends around each other (except hes not a nice friend at times with the yelling/verbal abuse when he gets mad). Because its so fresh Im sure he doesnt want me to see anyone but yet he still sees/talks to the women he had an affair with. I even went to see a physcologist who literally BROUGHT ME BACK TO LIFE! It was amazing with her help I let go that black cloud that depression , misery that hung over me the last 3 years and it helped me let go of my sons father (which I was pretty much over and not in love with him anymore) this way she helped me accept ALOT of negative feelings and saved me from 1-2 years of misery I would of had had I not gone to see her. My main question do any of you get along with your child's father? Is it safe, or a good idea? I know the child/children will be happy parents are getting along.... but I gave you a brief synopsis of our relationship to understand "the friendship" part. Any advice is appreciated!!!! Thank you!!!