is it okay to have sex after 8 weeks?

Tiffany - posted on 04/10/2015 ( 9 moms have responded )

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Im have been dying to have sex but im afraid to get attached to anyone bc im a single mom. I haven't had sex in almost 5 months including pregnancy month. Now i just feel like a horn ball ready to explode!! I want to call my babys dad but i dint want him to get any of the power anymore what do i do?!

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Jodi - posted on 04/10/2015

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WTF? If you are that horny, masturbate. Don't go calling whoever just because you are horny. This is how people make bad choices with their baby daddies (and they have names for people who do that)......grow up and learn some self control.

With regard to 8 weeks after birth, why have you not had clearance from your doctor yet?

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Dove - posted on 04/13/2015

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Find a hobby... like taking care of your baby. If you are a single mom your CHILD should be the main focus of your life, not getting laid. There are ways to take care of yourself that do not involve seeking sex w/ someone else... especially your ex.

Trisha - posted on 04/13/2015

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Avoid the father for sure, if all you want is a sexual relationship. I too would be concerned about getting attached to someone. I don't really have any suggestions for you unfortunately. I have a history of being able to separate sexual encounters from relationships, but I would be worried about birth control and diseases so soon after my baby is born, so I personally wouldn't just jump into bed with any random someone (Generally, that is more my style...lol).

Tiffany - posted on 04/10/2015

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Ha ha un sure he wont!!! But i can't stand him that's the only thing but hey we will see

Antonia Lynn - posted on 04/10/2015

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If your doctor has said it's ok to have sex again, then why not use the guy. Regardless of whether or not you want him in your life, if you are seriously that horny, go for it. He probably won't mind!

Tiffany - posted on 04/10/2015

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Umm im pretty grown ma'am just stating how i feel doesnt mean that i am doing it At ALL i have a degree a career and a beautiful child.. this is suppose to be a community for moms giving advice w/out negativity. thanks but no thanks

Tiffany - posted on 04/10/2015

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Ive been doing that every so often to help but i have the physical urge that masturbation just cant satisfy at this point. its weird bc this is the longest ive been without sex i see my childs father just abt everyday bc he helps eith our baby. we dont have sex but im just about ready to pounce on him just bc he's the only man "in my life right now" and i dont want a relationship with him anymore just stuck between a rock and a hard place!

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