Amy - posted on 08/14/2016 ( 6 moms have responded )
Today my BF/daughters father started calling me all kinds of names today when we got into an argument. We haven't been getting along lately so I have been ignoring him and not speaking to him. So today he just went of the handle & cursed me out when I said something to him, and I hadn't yelled or begun to argue yet. That came after being called a B***H, C**T, STUPID, SHUT THE F UP. All kinds of verbal abuse, not to mention throwing things at me and getting all in my face while I was holding our daughter. This isn't the 1st time he's gotten like this, he punches holes in doors, walls, big décor pictures. Of course everything he breaks is mine because everything in our house I own. He's gotten worse over the last year & I keep it from both our families and friends. Every time this happends he regrets what he says & does and tries to apologize & talk.. Ive always made empty threats hoping he'll straighten up, but it'll last for a week then he'll go right back to being an asshole. Iv'e tried talking normally to him about our issues so he wont snap out, but it never works. I'm not one to put myself through hell, misery, and unhappiness all for the sake of our daughter and stay because of her. She will eventually be old enough to realize "mommy & daddy"fight all the time and I don't want her to even experience that or be around it. She's my only child so ive never had to go thru this before.. I've had enough, but idk WHAT TO DO OR WHERE TO START? ANY ADVICE?