is it wong to be scared to have unprotected sex

Brittany - posted on 06/28/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )

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my boyfriend and i have been dateing for 1 year he wants to have unprotected sex i told him im not ready he said ok well now he is talking about haveing kids with me i want kids but not right now i am still in high school so what should i do

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Sarah - posted on 06/28/2012

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Tell him no. If he doesn't want to wear a condom, then he can have sex with his hand instead of you.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 06/28/2012

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Don't cave to the pressure. It is a bad move. You don't want kids now? Well guess what? Having unprotected sex will lead to just that. Also, if you have not both been tested for STDs, you will get that too! Don't do it. Only an asshole would try to pressure that. If he is not an ass, he will stop insisting after you have said no. If he continues, drop him like a bad habit and let him jerk off or find another girl. It is not worth it so young.

Amy - posted on 06/28/2012

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I agree with Dove, not only do you risk getting pregnant but by having unprotected sex you are putting your life at risk by catching STD's! If he can't understand your position it's time to move on, don't let him pressure you into something you don't want.

Dove - posted on 06/28/2012

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Have protected sex or no sex. If he can't respect that then you need to break up with him.

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