T - posted on 11/16/2015 ( 5 moms have responded )
A few months ago I was doing some food shopping when my child's father and his new girlfriend showed up to start up problems. I cut shopping short to avoid the problems around my 2 year old but they ambushed me at check out. She was already asked to stay away from my son due to her behavior and i didn't think as a mother their situation of being homeless and playing street thug was a good environment for any child. On top of that they have a violent relationship and are known to hit each other. Anyways they left and waited outside the store doors for me. I dont care if he wants to see or talk to his son. He is the father he has the right but as he was talking to our son his girlfriend began to start arguing with me. I didn't give in to the yelling because i had my son with me and she was pregnant. She got an inch away from my face and spit on me and i kept telling her i wasnt going to fight her and as I walked away she threw a plate of food at my back. While she was doing all this my baby's father was now standing behind her laughing like it was funny. They put my son in a bad situation. Where everything happened at ( thank god nothing did happen) if she would have hit me my son's stroller would have been pushed right into the street and where i live people don't watch where they are driving very well. I have charges pressed against her. I have some of his family and him telling me i just need to get over it and let her in my sons life. Now my question, is it wrong that i dont want her around my child after what happen?