Shaunaugh - posted on 11/15/2013 ( 4 moms have responded )
Hi ladies < so here is the scoop my husband and i have been together 8 years now , we have 2 boys and are happy and content . My partner has a daughter from a previous relationship that ended when she was 2. Its been a rollacoaster with the mother back and forth to court , to trial ...... etc anyways 2 years ago we asked for 4 extra days a month because everything seemed good , we live basically on same street , our son was going to be going to same school as sister ...blah blah , THEN WAM the mother picked up and moved 2 hours away . !!! that was a battl;e eventually my hubby and the ex met at atTim hortons and wrote up a agreement anout visittation and pick up drop off location and times . So roughly in the past 2 years the daughter has onlyu been here 12 times . my husband and her were very close , mind you her mother has since then been married and have another child . So the last time we have seen the daughter is May 12 ..... it is now going on Christmas ....... we have tried communicating via email but barely get responses , my husband has gotten emails from the mother NOT to phone house .... we sent a email regarding christmas plans asking if she was planning on coming .... response was not sure i have to think about it !!! OMG at 11 years old who would not want to see there family , is this child brainwashed or is she just growing up ?????