Is my baby half black????

Kaye-Loni - posted on 08/16/2015 ( 9 moms have responded )

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Ok please don't judge!
I am white. And I thought there was only 2 possible fathers to my 3 weeks old son. One guy is part Puerto Rican and white and has pretty fair skin. The other is white Mexican and native American. My son is kinda brown like a native or Hispanic baby. I slept with o e black guy but according to my Dr I was already pregnant when I had slept with him. So according to the calendar I wasn't ovulating when I slept with the black man. But could the Dr and calendar be wrong? What physical appearances can I look for to be able to tell. I never spoke with the black guy again so I dint even know how to contact him for a DNA test. Please help!

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Dove - posted on 08/16/2015

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No. You need the DNA tests. The only way to know for sure who the father of a baby is is to either only have one sexual partner... or to have a DNA test done because babies can pick up physical traits from ANYONE in the blood line of either parent.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 08/16/2015

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Well, do the dna test on the other 2 men, then you will know who it is.
In the future, please use protection when having multiple partners. Protect yourself from pregnancy, stds, ad your current circumstance. Your baby should know who his father is.

Sarah - posted on 08/16/2015

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No you will need to do DNA. People can look just like someone, but have no relation or even genetic heritage as them.

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Raye - posted on 08/19/2015

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When the doctor estimates how far along you are in the pregnancy, they usually date it back to your last period. There's no way to tell exactly when conception happened unless you only had sex once, with one guy, during a 4 week window. Ovulation can happen at any time (even during your period, although that's rare). So, anyone you slept with during that time could be the father. You just have to do the DNA test to be sure.

Kelsey - posted on 08/18/2015

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You can call them and have them go to cvs and get a dna test, they then send it somewhere (the box will tell them) and you do the same and then someone will contact you with the information.

Kaye-Loni - posted on 08/16/2015

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That's the plan it's just a little difficult now because I moved to Texas and they're all in Oklahoma. I want to know so bad! I was just wondering if there were any physical signs I could look for....

Dove - posted on 08/16/2015

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Why not DNA test the other two men to see if either of them is the father of the baby? You need the truth anyway cuz your baby deserves to know who is father is...

If one is... you have your answer. If neither is... you also have your answer unless there is a 4th guy you had sex w/ in the same time frame.

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