Is my daughter a slut?!?!!

Emma - posted on 07/05/2015 ( 6 moms have responded )

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My 16 yr old daughter likes to go out with her friends (most male) a lot. Whenever she is home her phone is blowing up with texts and when I ask her who it is she always says a guy name. I know she isnt a virgin but Im concerned she is have sex with guys she doesnt even know! Also she has been dressing more provacativly lately.

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Emma - posted on 07/06/2015

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When she would act up I would ground her from going out to see her friends, I dont take her phone aways because she needs it for her dance classes and I need to know when to pick her up. When she is home however i take her phone. And about the clothes I dont buy them for her, her friends do or she does or she will cut them. My husband an I have had a good talk with her last night about pregnacy and stds.

Gena - posted on 07/06/2015

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I would sit down and have a talk with her. Also make rules about phone time,no texting during dinner etc. And talk to her about all the risks of unprotected sex,STDs,pregnancy.

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MaryAnn - posted on 07/06/2015

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No. Your daughter is not a slut. Im mad for her. If you've had a few talks with her, I'm sure she gets it- sex is a risky behaviour.
Do you talk to her about her worth? Remind her of all the things that make her special. All the things about her that make you happy... do you tell her you love her and want to see her do well?
Do you talk to her about relationships? Like the one you have with your husband? How its hard work, but you do it because of your love?
Has she seen a doctor? For STI screening and birth control? And not because "she's a slut" but because she is a beautiful, and special young woman who deserves to know her health status and is worth protecting?

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