Chelsea - posted on 01/21/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )
I'm reaching out. at this point in my life i don't know what to do anymore and i need some outside advice. me and my husband have been married for 3 years. we have a 4 year old daughter from before marriage and just had another daughter who is 1 now. it seemed like the day she was born my husband lost all interest in me. he just seems disgusted in me. before i had her he couldn't keep his hands off of me. now i cant even get him to talk to me for a long period of time with out arguing. when he comes home from work he doesn't even hardly look at me he just rushes over to our youngest daughter. its gotten so bad that i have actually become jealous of my child and the attention and love she gets from him. the other day i just broke down crying and told him how i felt and told him how sad he makes me and all he does is sit across the room and tell me nothing is wrong. then he leaves and goes to hang out with his dad. oh and by the way any extra time he has he spends it at his dads house 4 blocks away. i feel like since the day we got married i have been competing for his attention either from his dad or my own child. i need to know if im just wasting my time or if someone else has gone through this...because honestly im just exhausted at this point....