Amy - posted on 02/29/2012 ( 78 moms have responded )
Well my husband and I found disturbing texts between my younger and older son. They've been hooking up for awhile now. They are both in their teens. They were talking about using condoms and oral sex etc. No abused person talks about condoms right. He also texted him saying stuff that where he wanted to do it or intimating he liked doing sexual favors for him. Well when we talk to him about it. He cries really heavy tears he thought we'd hate him and my husband asked if he did anything he didn't want him to do. He said yes every time. He lies a lot whenever to get attention it seems. He told us stories since he was 7 about stuff as long as he had a story to tell. He has mental issues. He binge eats can't control his anger or other emotions. Very impulsive. He also has been cutting himself and sent inappropiate texts to other guys. He has identity issues as well. Our older son does drugs and is kicked out for now. We want to have a normal family but this exactly ruins everything we worked for. Our younger son doesn't want therapy. And we can't force our older son. Idk what does one to do? I mean they both need help if they don't want it. Is there anything we can do? Do you think it's abuse? Should I believe him even though his texts said otherwise? My DH beleves him he wants to believe he's innocent I think... I feel like he's trying to manipulate us.