Tootie - posted on 09/23/2011 ( 13 moms have responded )
My husband and I have been together for 13yrs, married for 9 and he's my bestfriend. I'm not from this State so anyone I know, I know through him. I don't work or drive and I'm a mom who has sickle cell anemia.
as I said before, he's my bestfrien,he's all I know. oh yeah, I'm 32 he's 35. We do EVERYTHING together, when we were younger, we kind of went our seperate ways when it came to hanging out but even then, for the most part, we did it together. We have routines, we watch the football game EVERY sunday together, thats what we do. he takes me everywhere because I don't drive.
But every so often, someone comes in the picture and tries to interfear with "this" and I get bothered. to me it's a problem but to him it's just someone else coming aroung us.
Now maybe i should be seeing things the way he is but when he does thing without me, i feel left out or like he's not thinking of me and i know thats not the case. i know he has to want to do other things,with other people but this is 13 yrs and i don't know how to respond to this.
I can't do a lot when it gets cold because of my sickle cee so that makes me feel bad too. Maybe i'm just over reacting and being selfish but i don't mean to be. what should i do?