Is there something wrong with my 3 year old?

Cassandra - posted on 09/05/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )

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My daughter will be 3 on Monday. I am to the point where I am so overwhelmed and exhausted with her behavior. First off, she didn't speak much u till about 2. She was in an Early Intervention program and received speech therapy for a year. The program transitions the child into a Priority Pre-School at age 3 and she went in for an interview but I was told she would not qualify because she was not behind enough. Her pediatrician has always told us not to worry about her and that all kids develop at different rates. I disagree. Her speech is still extremely choppy and she doesn't form many sentences on her own. She repeats everything we ask and she is great at labeling things, such as cat or dog or white car, etc. She is horrible about listening and following directions. She just enrolled her in dance ass and soccer with kids her age and both classes we had to leave because she would not sit down and listening to the instructions the teacher was giving. She was more interested in running around the room and getting into people's purses and getting the soccer cones and balls out. If we correct her and try and re-direct her to the activity she has tantrums and cries. She is like this when we try and go to the grocery store or to the mall. I feel like I can't take her anywhere and she is missing out on so much. I am a stay at home mom and I feel like maybe she should be in a pre-school to help with more structure. She is behind in potty training and dressing herself. She is extremely hyperactive and slightly aggressive as well. I'm not sure if she has ADHD because she will sit and watch the iPad or a tv show. Any moms have kids like this? I need help.

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Mary - posted on 09/05/2015

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.Hi, my 6y.o. grandson is still active beyond others. He had similar patterns described for your daughter and was diagnosed with ADHD. He could also sit and watch TV and play with his tablet alone for an hour. However, he was always easily distracted and we got frustrated with the fact that when behavior occured there was no turning it off until he did. We went to a child development pediatrician for diagnosis and planning for his school. He still is on medication in a.m. and at sleep but is better concentrating in school, totally potty trained and his speech is finally catching up with clarity and vocabulary. The important thing is that we got a plan at age 4 and it helped him and us. Our pediatrician referred the specialist, but you can get info for your area on line also and there may be special education advocates in your school that you can contact even if your child has not started school yet. Good luck. Remember it may be as overwhelming for her as it is for you, especially if she appears bright like my Jayden

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