Monica - posted on 09/07/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )
My Husband Fathered a child w/married woman(before we met). She divorced & her xHusband refused to give up his rights to my Husbands child. My Husband & I are in his Childs life. She knows him as Daddy & other man by his 1st name. We only get to visit 1 time per year due to out of state (16 hrs away). We try to talk & skype w/her as much as we can. She refuses to give my Husband a paternity test in court or any legal rights, yet demands we send her $$ every month. Even Threatens he cant see his Daughter if he does not pay. Tells him his child will never step foot in our home, yet calls up for more $$. He tells her he wants legal rights. 10 days ago she calls ask for more $$ we tell her we want rights she refuses, now 2 weeks later she tells him she wants him to be in his Daughter's life more...??? I feel this woman is nuts and possibly BI-POLAR, and i feel that she is emotionaly abusing not just the child but us as well, and i think it's a form of P.A.S? Ive tried to tell my Husband to stop paying her and obtain an attorney, yet legal bills would be over 6000.00 if not more, and we cant afford that. Any advise on how to handle this con-artist??