Mandy - posted on 02/15/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )
I'm 18 and have a 2 1/2 year old daughter, Jaylin, I live with my mom and plan to move out soon. My boyfriend, Brett, who is also Jaylin's father is almost 20 and lives in his mom's basement. Lately, I'm concerned he is not interested in me anymore. First off when he comes over he acts as dead beat as ever. I'm always running around taking care of Jaylin and he refuses to help. I ask him to help and he's like, "Mandy, you can do everything yourself. Okay? So shush up and do what women are suppose to". He always ignores Jaylin and stuff. Once, he told me to go over to the couch and he started to talk to me and stuff and then JAYLIN NEEDED SOMETHING AND HE TOLD HER TO SHUT THE F**CK UP. Sometimes I break down and cry and he's like, "MANDY, BABE, I LOVE YOU. you KNOW THAT. Kay?". When Jaylin was 1st born I broke up with him and he tried to get custody. He lost, but we got back together because he swore he would change. He always says he will change, but never does. I want what's best for Jaylin but I love him, I think. HELP, ADVICE?